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For 16 years, Rev. James De Biasio, founder and Spiritual
Advisor to ISD, has been a strong presence, listening with patience, guiding
with love, leading with his heart. The following interview with Sue
Landon is a gift for your enjoyment!
You were
born in 1942 to a very large and close-knit extended family. Can you tell us
something about how that influenced your life?
I grew up in Elizabeth, New
Jersey, and I had very loving parents. I am the youngest son of an Irish
mother and Italian father, so of course I was raised Catholic. I also
have one older brother, and grew up with lots of cousins and aunts and uncles
around. One of the defining elements of my youth
was that my grandfather, my fathers father, who had four children, bought
five row houses in Elizabeth, one for himself, and one for each of his
children. So I grew up in a really strong family environment. I
used to go from house to house at night to see what they were having for dinner
and choose the one I liked best. I was too little to reach the door
latch, so Id knock and yell until someone answered.
The five row houses shared a backyard, so my aunts and
uncles and cousins were as much a part of my life as my own parents and brother
were. Holidays were huge with 30 or 40 people all gathering for the
celebration. I had a special connection with one
of my cousins who was about the same age as me because not only were our
fathers brothers, but our mothers were sisters.
Some people
say that psychic ability is derived from terrible trauma in youth. Your
background doesnt fit that theory. No, I dont
believe that is true. Everyone is naturally psychic and its just a
matter of whether one chooses to expand it or not. Perhaps there is some
genetic connection, but it is a certitude for me that we are all gifted
intuitively. It is part of our nature, and to deny that is not to
understand human nature. With commitment and hard work, it can be
developed. There have been many overnight wonders in the psychic field
who dont have the background in the metaphysical philosophy. One
who has knowledge but does not know metaphysics is like an ass carrying books.
What was
your educational background? Education was through the
Catholic mill. Grade school, high school, college, graduate school, and
then I taught with the Jesuits for 11 years, biology and chemistry.
With such a
strong Catholic upbringing, did you ever consider the priesthood?
Thought about, yes. Probably every young man
raised in a Catholic environment considers it at some point, but I knew it was
not for me. I remember as a youngster sitting in church I was
probably about five years old at the time. The priest was giving a
sermon, and I kept saying to myself that this isnt right, this isnt
true. The element of disbelief was always present.
Can you
recall any early experiences with your abilities? In
thinking back, there was one incident that happened when I was about 16 or
17. I had gone to my high school to help set up for a dance. There
was nobody around at all. I was probably the first person in the building that
night. I turned around and there were two people standing there, a young
woman and an older man. I turned and said hello.
They spoke to me, and while I dont recall the specifics of what
they said, it was something about that I shouldnt be concerned, that I
had a mission in life. I turned slightly so that they were out of my
view, and when I turned back, they were gone. For years I considered that
to be a very strange event until I realized it was my spirit guides encouraging
me.
Why do you
suppose it happened at that moment? Well, I suspect
the energies were right. The place where we were standing when it
happened was at the end of a corridor that fanned out into a central area, and
it formed a triangle. My mind at the time was on my future and
college. It seemed to be appropriate.
How did you
get started in psychic exploration? I was teaching in
New York, and also had started a business on the side. I invited a friend
of mine to dinner, and it turned out his wife was a trance medium. After
dinner, they wanted to know if I would like to do a séance. I had
never done one before, but I said sure, why not? At the séance,
two things happened. One, I immediately felt comfortable and at home as
if I had been doing this all my life, and second, I started to go into a trance
myself! As a result of that, I became a member of
their development group, and sat every Tuesday evening at 8:00, summer, winter,
spring and fall, every Tuesday faithfully for eight years. I felt blessed
that I had that leisurely path to development and didnt have to
rush.
Who else did
you study with? I had two important teachers.
One was Marjorie Staves, who was a British medium. The second
was Clifford Bias, who was an extraordinary man. He was the founder and
head of the Universal Spiritualist Association, and he had an incredibly
dynamic church in NYC which happened to be a block from where I lived. It
was fabulous. It was in the small theater of the Ansonia Hotel, a huge
hotel on the west side of NY where all the opera stars lived like Caruso.
There were two Sunday services, and I went to both.
Is there
anything in particular that happened while you participated with that
group? Every year Cliffords group held a
seminar, and one particular year it happened to be in Elizabethtown College in
Elizabeth, PA. I got a call two nights before and Clifford said,
Jim, you are going to do the message service on Saturday a
huge event and you are going to do blindfold billets.
I had never done it before. Clifford said
yes, I could do it, but I said no, I couldnt, and if I fell on my face,
it would be on Cliffords head. Despite the fact that there were
many mediums in the room, I was the only one asked to do blindfold billets.
Despite my fears, it went very well. It was a seminal experience in
my development because I found out I could do it.
What
happened that led you to start giving homilies? I was
at Camp Chesterfield in Chesterfield, Indiana. I was a student, and was
called upon to give the homily. I had never given one before so I
didnt know what to talk about, didnt know what to do. I said,
Spirit, its up to you. Well, it turned out fine, and
Ive been talking ever since. Ive always
felt comfortable with everything. Ive always felt protected, and
believed I would only draw the best to myself, the highest energies.
Ive had some encounters with negative entities from time to time, but it
has never disturbed me.
At what
point did you decide on psychic work as a
profession? Thats a big change from teaching for
the Jesuits. I had sold my NY business and semi-retired at the advanced
age of about 34 years old. I started a development group in NJ, and one
thing led to another. People started asking for readings. My mother
was quite enthusiastic about it, but it took a bit for my father to come
around. The turning point came after I was ordained when my dad saw me do
the memorial service for my uncle. My uncle had requested that I do it
before he died. My father even helped start the church in Sparta,
attended services from time to time, and came for healings.
When did you
start the Sparta church? 1976, and it was a battle.
Nobody had chartered a new church in New Jersey in 75 years, and nobody
knew how to do it. Between the IRS and the NJ Attorney General, it took
us four years to finalize everything.
What has
been the evolution of the church over the years?
Initially the church was established as a Spiritualist Church. In the
course of time I realized that there was more than just the spirit
communication. We were missing a whole lot. We were missing the
foundation of the philosophy, which was metaphysics. Gradually it evolved
from the spiritualist perspective of proving the existence of the spirit world
and communication with the spirit world, to expanding on the philosophy, which
is self-responsibility. We dont believe in vicarious
atonement
that Jesus or Krishna came to save us from our perceived sins.
We have the individual responsibility to learn and to grow and to make
right things that we offset. The philosophy of the
church or the tone of the church gradually moved from spiritualism to
metaphysics. The church in NJ still has a stronger spiritualist bent, but
that has evolved also.
What do you
consider to be the fundamental philosophy of the Institute for Spiritual
Development? We provide an open forum for a variety
of belief systems, and in that way, we assist one another in growing. An
important outcome of this approach is our commitment to being universally
accepting and non-judgmental.
Do you think
we are successful at being accepting and
nonjudgmental? You can feel it when you walk in the
door. We exercise our human ability to be non-judgmental at ISD. We
put into practice all the spiritual principles of the church such as
self-responsibility and unselfish service. Whatever we are promoting, the
objective is it becomes a philosophy, a life pattern for the individual that we
commit to and practice.
How are we
doing as a church? ISD is a very healthy church.
The strongest measure of that is our pledge program. I have had
much experience with pledge programs in the past, and I can tell you that the
percentage of people who pledge plus the percentage of people who fulfill their
pledges is extraordinarily high, way above the national norm. The same is
true for the percent of members who actively participate in the church.
Normal is between 5 and 10 percent. At ISD, 40 to 50 percent of our
membership is actively participating in the church. We are doing
something right.
What
concerns you about the church? We need to project
ourselves, and find more of those people that we are here to serve.
Were not going to reach everybody, but there is a much broader audience
for what ISD has to offer out there. My plan is to write and publish, and
that will start to bring the attention to ISD that will help it grow. I
am quite clear that we will have a period of spontaneous growth once the word
gets out. There will come a point when ISD just takes off.
ISD is an excellent organization. The
presentation of our product is excellent. As mentalities and attitude
mature in the overall population, ISD will simply ignite. No doubt about
that. When ISD was first being established in D.C., we had a secretary
who didnt like the way things were set up. Push came to shove, and
eventually she told me, Why dont you bury this thing? It isnt
going anywhere. I look at the people who attend this church, and
while every seat is not full, Im glad we didnt bury it. Each
and every face, every person, every situation, is precious to me.
What do you
see as the key elements of developing our psychic
abilities? If you start with the Spiritualist
perspective and make contacting spirits from the other world of the utmost
importance, what does that do? Now you know that Aunt Harriet is fine.
What questions does that answer? Spirit communication doesnt
go far enough. There has to be more than just knowing they are there and
doing fine. At a séance I went to once, the
medium told one of the women present that she had contacted her husband.
The woman said Keep him. The medium pushed, and it went back
and forth for a long time. Ive seen that more than once, where the
medium is more committed to what he or she sees or senses than to what is going
on with the person in front of them. Thats a
long answer to your question. The answer is that the key element to
developing psychic ability is keeping your heart with the client. The
second key is a long-term commitment to development.
What
frustrates you about being a professional psychic and teacher? The only
real frustration is that no psychic is ever given the whole
picture, never. It isnt really a frustration, though. I am
used to it and accept it. I used to read for a
woman who would come out twice a year to see me. As she was leaving one
day, I put a hand on her shoulder and said, What are all of these little
coffins in your aura? She said, Oh, I forgot. I meant to ask you
that. That is about my sister. I think shes getting ready to
make her transition. Se we talked about it a bit and left it there
and went on. Well, a month later she was in a fatal auto accident.
She collided with a truck carrying coffins and she was killed. It
was inappropriate for her to know that her end was coming.
You see enough to give them so that they can take
it and find the missing link for themselves. If not, then the medium
becomes the person who is dictating their life for them. I suppose you
could call that a frustration of being psychic, those clients who want you to
dictate the actions of their lives for them.
Is it karma
that you established ISD? Yes. I have come to believe
it is fixed karma for me. Fixed karma means we come into this life given
or having chosen certain major areas to address. We are moved along that
path of destiny. I may not like the route at the moment, but it will take
me where I need to be, that I know. My vision is limited and my scope is
personal. I may react against where its going, but I always come
back to that point of understanding what will be will be, and I dont have
much choice about it. I accept the responsibility that I
have chosen this for myself, and I have no control over anybody else.
Thats the big thing. No control over anybody elses
karma or destiny, so I dont try to make the decisions for them, although
I may try to facilitate their decisions.
What is
your favorite word? Enthusiasm, because its
from the Greek, en theos, which means with or within God. One of
the most beautiful concepts, beautiful words in the language.
Favorite
book? Fiction, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Mists of
Avalon. I also like poetry, so much of what I read is poetry
collections. My favorite spiritual book is The Lives and Teachings of
the Masters of the Far East by Baird Spaulding. If I were stuck on
desert island, those would be the three I would take.
Favorite
food? Pizza, and the quest is ongoing to find the
perfect pizza restaurant. Followed shortly by hot fudge sundae.
Any final
thoughts? Always. Something I remember from
college was one of the priests telling us to sow wild oats all week, and on
Sunday pray for a crop failure. Of course we all
make mistakes, and maybe its a good idea once a week on Sunday to pray
that our mistakes dont hurt anyone. But when they do, and when the
mistakes of others hurt us, we must learn to forgive if the future is to hold
any promise. Forgive and move on. |